The foundations of mutual realness and aliveness come in the presence of one or more awake, engaged others, living with and through their own bodies and lives and minds and hearts, and interested in your’s too

A person or group toward you

A person or community for you

Which then suggests a correlate challenge, What do we do in times of aloneness, when there is no other? Or of dampened existence, when there are at least others, but with varying degrees of aliveness, awareness, engagement, or interest in you?


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